The Harder I Fight the More I Love You: A Memoir

by Neko Case

New Book of the Week , March 24, 2025

"What makes you think you're so important that someone should listen to you?" It's the question Neko Case has been asked—and even worse, asked herself—her whole life, born into a spectacularly neglected childhood ("raised by two dogs and a space heater") and bounced around the rural Northwest until she found her people and her voice in the Tacoma punk scene. If you love her singing and her songwriting, it's inconceivable you won't love this starkly beautiful book, but even if you've never heard her (you should!) you'll likely never forget the childhood she recalls and the person she became. It's my favorite book I've read so far this year—easily.
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— Tom

The Harder I Fight the More I Love You: A Memoir was reviewed in Newsletter #387 on March 24, 2025. For more like this, and other bookish news, sign up for the newsletter .

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